5 variations of the lotus sex position you should try

With the rain pouring out, what better time than the monsoon to stay indoors and get cosy between the sheets with your boo? If you’re someone who prefers prolonged pleasure over quick orgasms then the lotus sex position is perfect for you. It's a truly intimate position that, unlike conventional sex, focuses on deep connections and extended pleasure.

Originating from an ancient spiritual tradition called tantra, the lotus position brings a mindful approach to sex, connecting your body, mind, and spirit to help you achieve a higher state of consciousness during sex. If this has piqued your interest, here are some fun variations of the lotus position to strengthen your connection with your partner. 

The yab yum

This position is popular among couples who enjoy extreme closeness during sex. It emphasises eye contact and synchronised breathing to build mindful connections between both partners. It resembles a tight hug, where the receiving partner sits on the penetrating partner's lap and straddles them using their upper body. This is a very affectionate position as it allows a heart-to-heart connection and enhances the emotional intimacy between partners.  

Reclining lotus 

The lotus position can get tiring and uncomfortable at times, making the reclining lotus a perfect alternative. It is far more relaxed and offers great support to both partners. Here, the receiving partner leans back on a bed or a reclining chair, while the penetrating partner kneels in front of them, moving back and forth. This relaxed angle offers a sensual experience, heightening both physical and emotional pleasure among partners.

Lotus with a lift 

On a chair 

Chair sex is not new, but it sure is exciting, especially if you're looking to spice up a boring sex life. It starts with the penetrating partner sitting on the chair while the receiving partner sits on their lap and straddles them with their legs wrapped around the chair. This position provides a stable base while facilitating intimate contact through gentle, rhythmic movements.

This position is quite similar to the regular lotus but with more emphasis on slow, gentle movements and prolonged periods of stillness. This position inspires the partners to be fully present with each other. It aligns closely with Buddhist principles of mindfulness and non-attachment by prioritising connection over orgasm. Maintaining eye contact and synchronised breathing are a few important elements that the Kareeza Way focuses on. Exploring each other's bodies with gentle touches adds to the sexual bonding in this variation.

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