Move over dating apps: Gen Z is finding love at run clubs and paddle tennis games

If you've been swiping through dating apps only to find yourself stuck in a cycle of mismatches, you're not alone. Believe us, online dating fatigue is real.

For years now, Gen Z and millennials have relied on dating apps as their go-to approach to meet potential partners. However, the growing desire for genuine in-person encounters has shifted the focus. Now, instead of relying on a well-written bio, sparks are flying over shared interests such as running groups, paddle tennis, or other activity-based meetups. For a generation that values authenticity, it’s no surprise that Gen Z is taking dating off the screen and into the real world, turning everyday hobbies into the perfect meet-cute opportunities.  

Love on the court: paddle tennis mixers  

Picture this: a court full of strangers who are eager to socialise, a sunny afternoon, and a paddle racket in hand. For single people who want to meet someone who appreciates fitness and fun as much as they do, paddle tennis mixers are becoming a popular substitute. The sport is the perfect icebreaker because of its fast-paced style and cooperative gameplay. 

With activities like their Paddle Tennis Mixers, Bumble India has helped players to "find someone who won't let the ball drop—on or off the court." These gatherings foster a laid-back atmosphere where laughter flows as freely as the game itself. Knowing that a possible match could be just a paddle away allows singles to concentrate on enjoying themselves.  

Running into romance  

Running clubs are the new meet-cute hotspots for those who prefer pounding the pavement over paddling. The PUMA x Bumble Singles’ Run in Bangalore, held on November 12, saw fitness enthusiasts come together to celebrate Singles’ Day with racing hearts and nervous smiles.  

These events are about more than just a fitness event—they’re about building a connection. The camaraderie of group runs fosters an immediate sense of community, making it easier to strike up conversations and form connections. Plus, there’s something inherently romantic about sharing the endorphin high of a great run.

In the US, Bumble is taking this concept even further with its *IRL* (In Real Life) events, spanning cities like Los Angeles, New York, and Miami. From singles-only running clubs to paddle tennis tournaments, the brand is helping people connect beyond the screen through curated experiences tailored to their interests.  

Why activity-based dating works  

These activity-based events are beautiful because they are natural. These settings let you be who you are in contrast to the carefully manicured and frequently stressful environment of dating apps. No clever one-liners or meticulously edited profile photos—just sincere conversations based on common interests.  

The stress of conventional dating is also relieved by activities. You're not worried about awkward silences; instead, your attention is on the game, the run, or the yoga position. This fosters an atmosphere where relationships are made easily and conversations flow organically.  

A global shift away from apps  

With headlines saying that Gen Z is "falling out of love" with swiping, the downfall of dating apps has been a big issue. There have been notable declines in app downloads, according to reports, which indicates that people are becoming less interested in online dating. In response, Bumble and Tinder have developed in-person experiences to close the gap, holding activities like spin classes for singles only, line-dancing lessons, and arcade nights. These face-to-face gatherings are about building community. They provide singles with an opportunity to meet like-minded people in a laid-back, enjoyable setting, whether it's volunteering, going to a happy hour with a culinary theme, or taking in a free concert.  

Ready to find love IRL?  

It's time to put on your trainers or pick up a paddle racket if you're prepared to put down your apps and give something new a try. In your city, look for run groups, sports mixers, or even events sponsored by Bumble. You may find a partner who shares your enthusiasm on and off the court in addition to a training companion. Gen Z is at the forefront of the dating revolution. Dating is not limited to screens anymore, as evidenced by relationships fuelled by fitness and game-set-match romances. It's simply a paddle or a sprint away, and it's genuine, energetic, and surprisingly active. 

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