We all enjoy a little validation and attention, but sometimes the romance in a relationship can start to fizzle out. There was a time when dating someone was less about swiping right and more about sweeping someone off their feet. In this era of ghosting and situationships, we all (secretly) crave some good old-fashioned romance. Now you need not go over the top and build them a Taj Mahal or buy them an extravagant gift; a few thoughtful gestures are all you need to leave your partner swooning! These simple acts of love are all about reviving the romance of bygone eras when things were less complicated, and they might just be what you need to reignite that spark. Here are some sweet romantic gestures that leave your partner swooning.
Picking them up
No, we’re not talking about cheesy pick-up lines at the bar. We mean actually driving (or taking a cab) to your date’s place and picking them up. It’s a small gesture that shows effort and consideration. Plus, it gives you a chance to spend more time; you could also learn about their taste in music, which can be quite important. But remember to offer to pick them up first and let them decide whether they're comfortable with it or not.
Be more chivalrous
Opening doors, pulling out chairs, and offering your jacket when it’s cold are small acts of kindness that can go a long way. And women shouldn’t be afraid to reciprocate. Chivalry is all about respect and consideration, regardless of gender.
Buy them flowers
Bringing flowers to the date might seem too cliche but we think it’s a timeless gesture. And everyone loves receiving them (including men)! And seeing them sitting in a vase around the house is a sweet reminder of the gesture. Trust us, your partner is going to be gushing over them for quite a while!
Phone calls
Texting can get so exhausting. We’re always worrying whether we’re responding too fast or too slow. Yes, it’s convenient but taking the time to call and hearing each other’s voice can be refreshing. It can be short but it shows that you’re willing to give someone your undivided attention. And the added bonus? Phone calls leave less room for miscommunication!
More meaningful dates
There’s nothing wrong with grabbing a simple meal together, but putting effort into planning unique, memorable dates can really help set you apart! Pottery workshops, picnic dates, local concerts, etc will help you connect on a deeper level and create shared experiences.
Taking things slow
In a world of instant gratification, there’s something about savouring the early dating days. Getting to know each other gradually, building anticipation, and creating meaningful conversations can be a game-changer.
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