Yes, blended orgasms are a real thing and here’s how to have them

You know what unicorns, dragons, and a healthy sleep schedule have in common? They’re all the stuff of legends. And apparently, blended orgasms are a part of that list too. 

If you’re wondering what a blended orgasm is and why it sounds like a drink you’d get at a beach bar, we’re here to demystify the term. While an orgasm is not the end all or be all when having sex (it’s all about the journey!), reaching climax feels pretty amazing. And what if we told you that you could have two (or more) orgasms at the same time? 

The science behind it

People with vulvas can feel different types of orgasms, which may come from many different kinds of stimulation. While clitoral and vaginal orgasms remain the most common, don’t snooze on others like nipplegasms, anal orgasms, and even a big O from just kissing. And when you combine different types of stimulation in one hot session, you’re more likely to experience a blended orgasm, which is the best of all worlds.

It’s important to note that a lot of existing reading on the topic defines blended orgasms as a combo of clitoral and G-spot stimulation, but with the presence of a G-spot up for debate, we’ll say that touching any two or more erogenous zones that feel good to you will help you have a blended orgasm. 

How to have one? 

When it comes to mixing stimulations, it’s all about creating a combo that will work best for you (kind of like a custom cocktail)—maybe your partner could rub your clitoris while they finger you, or maybe they could suck on your nipples as they’re penetrating you. More ideas include fingering while licking your clit, using a vibrator during penetration, or even adding butt stuff, if it’s your jam, to the mix.

For some people, even describing a NSFW fantasy in detail can make them orgasm—we tend to forget that our brain is the biggest sexual organ of all. But a loose formula to keep in mind is that you or your partner should stimulate the body both externally and internally at the same time. Don’t limit yourself though, you could also add in other activities such as dirty talk, anal sex with sex toys or penetration, nipple clamps, or just plain old caressing of the erogenous zones like the inner thigh, butt, feet, or neck. 

Now that you know how to experience a mind-blowing blended orgasm, it’s time to cancel all plans, get experimental in bed, and live out your fantasy.