Are you someone who has leadership skills? Do you tend to save and not spend? Or do you have the eye to catch someone lying? Surprisingly, all this and more than 5,000 other personality traits can be revealed simply by the way you write.
Four members of Team Cosmopolitan India sent their handwriting samples to Mr Vinit Bansode, India’s leading graphologist (one who studies handwriting and signature) and life coach, with a stellar list of clientele, including country’s top businessmen politicians, sportspersons and Bollywood celebrities.
And here’s what their handwriting revealed about them:
Arpita Kala, Assistant Features Editor (Digital)
Strengths:
- A task-master who likes to do things
- Can be a workaholic person
- Has a good memory
- Is more comfortable with children or wants to do something for children
- Can be the eldest child in the family
- Is a responsible person
- Tends to save and not spend more money
- Can be very friendly and good in rapport building
- Can have artistic abilities - drawing, sketching, calligraphy et cetera
- A perfectionist
Areas of improvement:
- Needs to be firm and assertive in her communication
- Needs to be street-smart
- Can be gullible
- Needs to learn to say no
- Needs to forget the past and unload the negative baggage
- Is a highly sensitive person; can get hurt by small criticism
- Needs to develop a thick skin
Diya Verma, Digital Writer
Strengths:
- Has good confidence, dynamism and leadership skills, but needs to be coached and trained for the same
- Has an analytical mindset
- Her strategy, planning, thinking and analyzing skills are outstanding
- Has a creative mind - drawing, painting, photography, et cetera.
- Has a good eye for detail
- Has good intuition
- Can catch people lying
- Is a rational and practical thinker
Areas of improvement:
- For her, communication is a challenge
- Is not very expressive with her feelings
- Does not ask for help
- Does not say things, which she ‘actually’ needs to say
- Still in the process of deciding which area to specialise in the future
- Tends to get stressed easily
- Needs to be more organised in her day-to-day activity
Akansha Bahadur, Editorial Co-ordinator
Strengths:
- Has a high self-image
- Needs to have power and authority
- Cannot compromise on respect
- More of a do-er than a thinker
- Has an interest in management studies
- Would like to work for an NGO or a social cause
- Is more attached or influenced by her mother than her father
- Will try to make other people happy at the cost of sacrificing for self
- Wants to work all her life; cannot sit at home
- Can be childish
- Can be a good trainer or a teacher or a counsellor
Areas of improvement:
· Needs to learn to forgive and forget. She can still forgive but finds it difficult to forget
Ekta Kashyap, Features Writer (Digital)
Strengths:
- Thinker
- Not a very social person
- Good intelligence and high IQ
- Doesn’t like crowded places; prefers to be alone
- Not very egoistic or dominating
- Adjusting and very approachable
- Good intuition
- Does not like to gossip or chitchat
- Likes straight talks or likes to answer in yes or no
- May have an interest in philosophy or self-help topics
- Has an academic aptitude
- Would like to go for higher education or teach or get associated with some kind of academics
- Has a good ability for listening
- Can have an interest in human behaviour science
Areas of improvement:
- Needs to develop confidence
- Has not planned about her future
- Has multiple choices about future
- Need for privacy is high
According to Mr Bansode, “Changing the way you write can change your approach to life. Graphology is proven science that can express the current thought pattern of a person by the way they present their writings. It’s not the written matter; it’s the handwriting that needs to be read.” The way to change is not merely to compel oneself to follow the habit. Instead, a small graphology exercise on focus can help bring about the change!
He suggests practising to write a little something - giving heavy pressure on the paper - every morning as soon as you wake up. This needs to be done first thing in the morning before you get involved reading the newspaper or responding to notifications on your smartphone. Inculcating this habit will help improve focus and concentration and will make you put thought into every action (*something everyone on social media needs to do).