Orgasms come in different forms. For some women, all it takes is clitoral stimulation to have them shaking. For others, it could be foreplay, followed by penetrative sex. Long story short, the way one woman orgasms is completely different from another. In addition to the clitoris and g-spot, stimulating your nipples can also make you cum (yes, you read that right).
Studies have shown that stimulating the nipples lights up the genital sensory cortex—the same area of the brain that senses contact with the genitals. With the brain interpreting nipple stimulation like genital stimulation, doing it well can give you that Big O that you so badly desire.
If you're looking to give nipple play a, here's everything you need to know about what to do and what not to do to maximise pleasure.
Whatever you do, do not rush
Start slow and build up the sexual tension; this will not only arouse your partner but will also leave them asking for more (their body language is cue). Start by kissing and caressing their face and neck and make your way down to the breasts and nipples. Remember to not rush your movements.
Mix it up with these techniques
Be it going down on your partner or stimulating the nipples, slowly breathing on and around the area is a great way to stimulate the nerves. These long and deep breaths aren’t just good for them, but for you as well as they give you time to relax and experience the sensations in the best way possible.
Be sure to stimulate other body parts
While you spend time on your partner's breasts, don’t forget to tease other erogenous zones. You could finger them or stroke their belly and move your hands in and between their breasts. By stimulating multiple areas, you can increase the chances of them having an orgasm.
Remember that practice makes perfect. What you must do is focus on the sensation and pleasures (the journey), continue it, and not the orgasm (destination). As mentioned earlier, keep things slow and experience the different sensations as you experiment with different types of touches. The more you explore, the more you and your partner will open yourselves to new-formed ways of pleasure.
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