Here’s how rocking will take your sex life to a whole new level

We know the missionary position gets a bad rep, and we get why. Beyond the eye-gazing and the proximity, it doesn’t really do much for the partner at the receiving end, since it’s quite hard for most women to climax from penetration alone. This can mean that a lot of times we have to come up with other, more creative ways to orgasm, and rocking is just that.

Have we got you intrigued? Read on to know (and orgasm) more! 

What is rocking?

If you’re hearing the term for the first time, and are confused, let us break it down for you. Rocking is one of the methods known to help women reach climax by penetration. How? It’s all in the stimulation it creates for the clitoris. First, the partner on top slides up a few inches while being in the missionary position. Then, the receiving partner rubs, or ‘rocks’ against the base of the penis or a sex toy, with the partner penetrating staying inside the vagina the entire time, instead of thrusting in and out. Think of it as grinding rather than the more common in-and-out motion. 

Why does it feel so good?

Many women are unable to orgasm from just penetration because it doesn’t involve the clitoris, which is one of the most common ways to reach the big O. This position places the penis or the sex toy right in alignment with the little nub, creating just the right amount of movement needed for toe-curling pleasure! Plus, the consistent stimulation throughout the act, instead of in breaks (which is what happens in traditional thrusting), is prime environment to reach climax. And even if it doesn’t lead to an orgasm, it definitely feels way more interesting and pleasurable than regular, run-of-the-mill penetration. 

How to ace the technique

Start with the missionary position. Then, while the other person is still on top, let them slide up a few inches or so, in a way that the base of their penis is directly in line with your clitoris. You might have to sacrifice eye contact for this, but if it means more chances of reaching O town, we’re not complaining. Then, with your legs wrapped snugly around their thighs, press your genitals together so you create pressure, and move in a gentle rocking motion. With grinding, choose the motion that feels most natural and enjoyable for the both of you. It could be the simple back-and-forth, or you could try something different like circles. 

Whatever way you decide to go, remember to not go fast, as this is one of those nice and slow positions that give you the opportunity to take it slow, do a bit of dirty talk, and enjoy the action. To make it easier and for better angle and support, slip a cushion under the receiving partner’s hips.