When it comes to personality traits, we all have our quirks, even in the bedroom. While some of these might be an occasional turn-off, there are a few (repetitive) habits that can be seriously annoying. Interestingly, our sexual habits can be influenced by our zodiac signs. And while some may argue that your zodiac sign hardly qualifies as a determining factor (you know who you are), we beg to differ. Much like our eccentricities, our sexual traits too can be shaped by our zodiac signs. Whether it’s an Aries rushing through foreplay or a Virgo making everything feel like a checklist, here are some of the most annoying habits, according to your zodiac. Buckle up, it is going to be a fun ride!
Aries
When it comes to sex, Aries is one of the most adventurous signs out there. They love to experiment and are often eager to try out new things. But their impatience and impulsiveness can sometimes ruin the moment, which can be pretty annoying. Instead of constantly chasing thrills, why not consider slowing down (occasionally) and simply savouring the moment with your partner? Extending the foreplay could be a good place to start.
Taurus
Taureans are touted among the most sensual lovers, and with good reason. They are passionate and romantic and believe us, their post-sex cuddling game is unbeatable. However, they are also suckers for routine and often hate change, which means little to no experimenting in the bedroom. Taurus, you might have to loosen the reins here and embrace a little spontaneity. It doesn't have to be anything drastic, maybe some roleplay, a little dirty talk, or perhaps a sex toy, just something to spice things up from time to time.
Gemini
Geminis can be quite difficult to please in bed, and it's not always their partner's fault. Known for their dual personality (a nicer way to say two-faced), Geminis enjoy variety in the bedroom and can instantly go from sweet passionate lovers to a dominating sex god (or goddess) without much warning, which is not the main problem here. The problem is their inability to communicate these things, which makes it difficult for their partner to comprehend what they need. As a result, Geminis end up getting bored or distracted during the deed, which can be quite off-putting for their partners.
Cancer
Cancerians have a sweet, nurturing energy and sex with them is always a fun experience, given how passionate and kinky they are. However, their emotional intensity can occasionally hinder the experience. Their constant need for reassurance can rub one the wrong way (not how you want it). They also have a habit of reading into things too much, and their confusion and worry are both quite evident during the act. Our advice, take a breather and simply enjoy the moment. Give your partner the space to enjoy sex with you without overwhelming them.
Leo
Leos are known for their confidence in all walks of life, including sex. They know and believe they are the best and love to put on a show just to prove their point. And while this can be endearing, it can also come off as annoying sometimes. Remember, sex is a two-person (or more, depending on how you like it) game, and making it all about yourself is no way to play. Be sure to give as much as you receive and try to be more aware of your partner's needs and desires. You may love a moment under the spotlight, but if your partner enjoys a passionate moment in the dark, be sure to oblige.
Virgo
Virgo, your strong desire for perfectionism is no secret. It's one of the things that makes sex with you so good, but sometimes, also quite frustrating. You love to-do lists and having things planned out, and while you may not barge into the bedroom with your checklist, we know you've mentally mapped it out. This need for things to be exactly right can make you quite critical of your partner—believe us, you aren't hiding your disappointment as well as you think—taking away from the spontaneity of the act. Why not let go of the reins for once? Let your partner surprise you for a change with some fun tactics, maybe a less detailed but more titillating position? It might not be perfect, but it will definitely be a memorable experience, for both of you.
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