What Blow Jobs Really Feel Like, According to 12 Guys

​Because you know you've always wondered if they're really that good.

1. "Kind of like having sex, honestly ... I think the sensation is similar, except I think that women have more control in a sense,​which makes it hotter." —​Craig, 23​

2. "Like having sex with a vagina that has a tongue except nowhere near as gross as it sounds." —​Chris, 28

3. "You can lose yourself in it more so than sex, I think, because you don't have to do anything other than experience it. With sex, you're almost always focusing not just on yourself, but on your partner. A blow job is beautifully selfish." —​Alex, 26

4. "My immediate reaction in my mind is always 'OH, DAMNNNN HERE WE GOO!'"​ —​David, 24

5. "I'd say physically while it feels somewhat similar to sex, the woman's ability to control the speed, pressure, and areas of focus make it uniquely enjoyable. And mentally it is definitely an increased turn-on to know she's just focused on your pleasure and enjoyment." —​Steve, 26

6. "Receiving a BJ is one of the greatest events in a man's life when it is done properly. You are in a power position over the girl, and just get to kick back and enjoy the show. The feeling is tremendous and jolts you in a way that sex can't match​." —​Jay, 29

7. "A blow job sort of feels like penis in vagina but you get to see your penis in her mouth, which is coo​l." —​Rick, 25​

8. "I don't know if I can describe how it really feels, other than it feels much dirtier in a taboo, porn-star kind of way." —​Daryl, 26

9. "If sex is putting your penis in a wet, unplugged vacuum ... a blow job is plugging that vacuum in." —​Andrew, 25

10. "All of the positives of sex, none of the work." —​Mike, 24

11. "My first blow job there was a lot of, uh ... there was a lot of teeth involved and blow jobs still give me anxiety honestly. They feel dangerous." —​Jordan, 28

​12. ​"I think what really sets blow jobs apart is the eye contact, honestly. There are some other things, obviously, but having her look up at you while you're in her mouth is just crazy."  —​Scott, 27

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