The best sex positions to try if your partner has a small penis

The tagline of the 1998 film Godzilla was ‘Size does matter,’ which might hold true for a gigantic dinosaur terrorising New York. When it comes to a man’s penis and their performance in bed, it need not be true because bigger does not equal better in this case. Sex has never been about size. But should you find yourself at the end of the shorter stick (no pun intended), here are some positions to help you maximise pleasure. 

We speak to Pallavi Barnwal, sexuality and intimacy coach and founder of GetIntimacy, and author of the book '69+ Saucy positions and techniques to spice up your intimate life' to know more.

Before we begin, here’s what you should know about size. A study titled ‘Journal of Sex and Marital Therapy,’ reveals that the average penis length is between 5.1 and 5.5 inches. So if you or your partner is on the shorter side of this scale, then this article is just for you. 

Doggystyle

This tried and tested position is perfect for those with a small penis because it allows you to make the most of your length. Hold on to their hips, waist, or hair for more control during the act. You could even spice things up by lowering the partner's (whose being penetrated) head and chest while arching their back, allowing you to go deeper. You can thank us later!

Face-to-face

Long penis or short, sex sure does get better when there’s some eye contact along with some making out, nipple play, etc. This position is perfect for people with short penises because it allows you to focus more on grinding or straddling your partner than on penetration. The best part is that you can do it anywhere—on the edge of a couch, chair, or a bed. Wrap your arms around each other and go to town. 

Cowgirl

This position sees the penetrating partner lie flat on their back while the other one gets on top facing them (or the other way in the case of reverse cowgirl). The partner on top can ensure that the penis stays in and use grinding movements instead of going up and down, which stimulates the clit. You can also switch to squatting cowgirl, which allows even deeper penetration as well as G-spot and clitoral stimulation. 

Leg/legs on the shoulder

To do this, the partner who is getting penetrated lies on their back with one leg straight. The latter kneels between their legs and raises their other leg up so that it rests on their shoulder. It’s great to go deep as it allows the person with a penis to use their partner’s leg for leverage. 

The partner with a short penis can maximise penetration by having both of their partner’s legs on their shoulders. Have them pull their knees up to their chest so that their hips lift off the floor (helping you decide how intense the thrusts can be). 

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