Everything you need to know about the dragon sex position

There are days when you just want to pull your partner close and tell them to f*ck you hard. And then there are days when you want to fill the room with some essential oil aroma, put on your sex playlist, and have a glass of wine, before indulging in a slow sesh. You’re in the mood to soak in the pleasure of every single touch that makes your skin feel the most alive. Be it the warmth of their breath against your neck, their natural scent you take a whiff of as you kiss their cheek, or just lying down, with your legs intertwined and your hands almost subconsciously caressing each other.  

For such days of a gourmet kind of sexual pleasure, we have the dragon sex position. If you ask me, I’d like to reserve most rear-entry sex positions for those days when I’d love a fast-thrust banging. But this one’s different. The dragon sex position is all about intimacy, even though there’s no eye contact. It’s about going slow and focusing more on the touch. 

If you’re up for trying it out, here’s everything you need to know about the dragon sex position.

Here’s how to do the dragon sex position 

To get into the position, the person being penetrated has to lie down on the bed—similar to the flatiron sex pose, except you have a pillow under your pubic area. This will elevate your butt a little during sex. The person penetrating will be on top, also face down. Usually, both partners keep their hands extended above their heads, resting on the bed. However, there are no rules and you can put your hands to better use instead of doing this. 

In the dragon sex position, the penetrating partner isn’t supposed to do fast thrusts but gentler circular motions.

It really hits the G-spot

We really do know the knee-weakening sensation that happens when they hit the G-spot. While this position is all about swirling motions, you can add a few deep but slow thrusts. And once the optimum depth is reached, the swirling can happen there. 

It’s great for clitoral stimulation 

With your butt elevated, you’ll have some space to touch your clit while at it. You can also use an air pulse vibrator for some suction. If you’re someone who orgasms through clitoral stimulation, this is perfect for you. For all we know, you may end up having a simultaneous orgasm! 

You can totally spice it up 

Yes, kisses on the necks are great but omg, the back deserves some lovin’ too! In this position, your partner will be able to make up for the gentleness down there by planting rough kisses and love bites on your back. 

It’s amazing for making sex last longer

If you feel you’d like your partner to last a little longer than they usually do, this position will help. Sex in this position will truly be slow and help you savour the time they are inside you for longer! 

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