80 flirty truth or dare questions to ask over text

Truth-or-dare is a classic for a reason. Whether you played it at sleepovers with your friends as a kid, or you still play it to this day as a group at parties or get-togethers, you never know what to expect—or if you’ll be the one in the spotlight. But besides just being a fun party game, playing truth-or-dare with a crush or a partner has the potential to get your heart racing and go from PG to X-rated real quick. Suddenly, “dare” has a whole new meaning, and it’s sexy as hell.

Plus, the best thing about playing truth-or-dare is that you can take it to-go and play from wherever you are, virtually. All you have to do is light up your text chain with some spicy questions to set the mood. Feel free to start out tame and escalate the naughtiness as you go. Not quite sure where to start? This list of truth-or-dare questions over text are fun, flirty, and guaranteed to get hot and heavy, if you want to take it there. Whether you and your partner opt for more vulnerable “truth” moments or challenging dares, there are plenty of topics to choose from.

One important caveat before the fun begins: Even a flirty virtual game needs to be consensual, because there’s absolutely nothing sexy about making someone uncomfortable. Make sure the person on the other end is enthusiastic and undoubtedly down to give your convo a sexy spin. When you’re on the same page, turn to the questions below, and thank us later.

Flirty Truth Questions To Text Your Partner

1. What do you think is the hottest thing about me?
2. What do you think is the hottest thing about you?
3. What move are you really good at in the bedroom?
4. Have you ever thought about kissing me?
5. If your past partners were to give you a sexual nickname, what would it be?
6. Tell me about the best sex you've ever had.
7. What typically non-sexy thing do you find really sexy?
8. What type of outfit on a person makes you go wild?
9. What song reminds you of me?
10. Do you want to know what I’m wearing right now?
11. What was your first impression of me?
12. Who was the last person you stalked on social media?
13. Where’s the craziest location you’ve ever had sex?
14. If you could change anything about yourself, what would it be?
15. Who was your first crush and why?
16. Do you believe in soulmates?
17. What’s the most romantic thing anyone’s ever done for you?
18. What’s the most surprising thing I’d find in your bedroom right now?
19. What’s your favorite sex position?
20. Where’s your dream place to hook up?
21. If you could take a day off to spend with me, what would we do?
22. Do you like giving or receiving oral sex better?
23. What’s the first thing you told your friends about me?
24. What’s a sexy fantasy you’d wanna try?
25. What was your biggest fear as a kid?
26. What’s your biggest fear now?
27. What’s the most amount of times you’ve orgasmed in a day?
28. What’s the most adventurous thing you’ve ever done?
29. What are your thoughts on open relationships?
30. Which song puts you in the mood?
31. What is the most awkward date you’ve ever had?
32. What’s your favorite name to be called in bed?
33. Have you ever been caught having sex?
34. Or have you ever walked in on anyone?
35. What’s a dating red flag for you?
36. What’s your favorite place to be kissed during foreplay?
37. When do you feel the sexiest?
38. Have you ever done something illegal?
39. Have you ever made a sex tape?
40. Would you ever have a threesome?

Sexy Dares to Text Your Crush

1. Text your best friend that you can’t stop thinking about me.
2. Go like the photo on my Instagram where I look the sexiest.
3. Post a photo of yourself to your story with a poll: Do I look sexy here?
4. Send me a close up picture of your skin and have me guess where it is.
5. Tell me the last outfit I wore that turned you on.
6. Send me a video of how you like to be touched.
7. List your favorite things about me.
8. Send me a link to one thing you’d love to see me in the next time we meet.
9. Come over… right now.
10. Pick out a sex toy for me for our next adventure.
11. I dare you to send me a thirst trap right now.
12. Send me a sexy audio message.
13. Using only emojis, tell me what you want to do with me.
14. I dare you to write a haiku about me and read it out loud.
15. Show me your last Google (or Instagram) search.
16. Order a sex toy for us to try in person.
17. Remove an article of clothing and send me a pic.
18. Tell me your biggest kink or fetish using only emojis.
19. I dare you to send me the last screenshot you took on your phone.
20. DM your celebrity crush and ask them to marry you.
21. I dare you to text your group chat a random selfie with no explanation.
22. Send me a link to the last porn video you watched.
23. Send me a pic of one part of your body you want me to kiss.
24. I dare you to re-create your favorite sex scene with me next time we see each other.
25. Make me a sex playlist.
26. Recreate your “O” face and send me a pic.
27. I dare you to touch yourself on camera for me.
28. Tell me an erotic story for two minutes. Go.
29. Text your best friend and ask, “u up?”
30. Text me a list of sex positions you’d want to try.
31. Describe your [body part] as seductively as you can.
32. Give your sofa a lap dance and send me the vid.
33. Draw your favorite body part of mine and send me the pic.
34. Describe the dirtiest dream you’ve ever had.
35. Grab a snack from your kitchen and eat it, on camera, as seductively as you can.
36. In detail, describe how you like to masturbate.
37. Order a sexy outfit for me to wear the next time we hook up.
38. I dare you to use your vibrator right now and tell me how it feels.
39. Get naked right now.
40. I dare you to FaceTime me and tell me how you feel about me.