8 Tips to Master the Virtual Flirt While Dating Online

In the midst of the coronavirus outbreak, we are all learning to adjust to the new normal. With the number of cases on the rise and social distancing continuing to be the norm, we find that the reality of dating, amongst other things, has changed significantly. However strange the times that we find ourselves in, the good news is that your love life does not need to come to a halt. Studies show that a lot more people are taking to online dating during this time. Bumble provides us with a great way to meet people and forge meaningful connections, albeit virtually in these times. So, if you are on a quest for love, why not try connecting with someone new from the safety of your own home?

Once you start swiping and match with someone you like, the right flirting technique can help you take this new connection a step further and turn it into one for keeps. All you require is a wee-bit of extra dedication to master the art of flirting virtually. To help you along, here are 8 expert-tips to keep the spark alive.

1. Avoid boring yes or no questions: As you start speaking to someone, it’s smart to avoid any questions that lead to dead-end (yes or no answers), as these make it difficult to keep the conversation flowing on both ends. A great way to avoid this is to use Bumble’s Question Game feature, which is designed to help you get to know the other person and discover mutual interests. 

2. Focus on unique, specific compliments: Run-of-the-mill, generic compliments won’t get too far. We urge you to do your research and browse through the bio details mentioned on the profile of your match. As a unique feature, Bumble allows users to link their Spotify and Instagram accounts to their dating profile, so use this to your advantage.“You have a great taste in alternative-rock” is a way better compliment than “nice profile pic”, trust us!

3. Don’t overdo texting, move to video instead: Don’t get stuck in a texting rut. Once you have established that you are mutually interested, keep the momentum going by setting up a virtual date. Here again, you can use Bumble’s Video Chat feature and connect safely without exchanging any personal information. 

4. Dress to impress: Once you set up a virtual date, put in an effort! You don’t need to doll up like it’s the Met Gala, but the right outfit in a bright colour, well-groomed hair and a touch of makeup can go a long way in making a great first impression.

5. Create a texting-ritual: Riddles, knock-knock jokes, interesting memes or a special playlist are great little ways to create a texting-ritual, one that the person you are chatting with can look forward to. Since this ritual is specific to the two of you, it creates a bond and a feeling of intimacy. 

6. Be open, but don’t be available all the time: This classic dating advice holds true for online dating as well. While we highly recommend you don’t play games (these can put the other person off), it’s important not to put your life on hold as you wait for the next text from your online match. And while it is super-exciting to flirt with someone you find attractive, do remember to give time to your family, friends, work, workout, hobbies etc.

7. Use humour and personality: Don’t shy away from expressing who you are. Your personality and your sense of humour can prove to be the most attractive qualities when you are texting with an online match. If you need a little help to get you going, Bumble has some fun icebreakers you can use to pique interest and trigger a reaction, all rooted in a great sense of humour. One of our favourites, “Did Ross and Rachel ever really break up?” is sure to get the conversation going.

8. Plan your future IRL meeting: A sense of indefiniteness can cause even the strongest flames to dwindle. Once you have established a mutual spark, make your intent to meet (once it’s safe to do so) evident. Confidence can be a hugely attractive quality. Plus, it conveys your intent towards forging a serious connection. 

So there you have it, 8 expert tips to help you master the art of the virtual flirt. Following these can make online dating fun, exciting and meaningful. And who knows, maybe these challenging times will lead to your very own ‘appily ever after! Get started and download Bumble NOW, from the App Store or Google Play Store.