5 ways to use lube for a sexier time in the bedroom

Let’s bust this notion once and for all—lube is not only for those who can’t get wet enough during sex. While it can help people who struggle with natural lubrication, it doesn’t end at that. From making sex safer—friction caused by dryness can cause infections—to making a romp feel oh-so-good, thanks to all the slickness, lube is the multitasking friend you didn’t know you needed in your bedroom. 

And if you’re wondering which one to use, we’ll take the guesswork out of the different types available—use a water-based one during penetration and with sex toys and an oil-based one for a sensual massage or solo exploration. 

Discover five ways you can use this elixir to spice up your sex life. 

Use it during butt play

Lube is non-negotiable for anal penetration because unlike your vagina, your booty doesn’t produce its own lubrication, but that doesn’t mean you should give it a skip when penetration is not involved. Be it fingering, rimming, using a butt plug or simply just massaging the anus, the act will feel so much more pleasurable if lube is involved. 

Use it for shower sex 

Water is not a lubricant, and with the shower washing off any lubricant your body naturally produces, things can ironically get pretty dry down there. To avoid that, bring a tube of lube the next time you plan to get hot and heavy in the bathroom, so things remain slippery and sexy! Just remember to use a water-based silicone lubricant, as an oil-based one can break down condoms. 

Use it during penetrative sex, but even before that!

Don’t let anyone fool you into thinking that lube is only for intercourse when your partner can’t maintain their own lubrication—whip it out during foreplay and watch it change your game. Add a few drops to the nipples for heightened sensation or utilise its slick properties to make cunnilingus and blowjobs feel even better. 

Use it when you masturbate

If you think lube is only for when you’re having sex with your partner, you’re wrong—even solo play can benefit from it! Instead of using dry hands that can increase friction and cause discomfort or relying on body lotions that may contain chemicals that could lead to an infection, your best friend is a water-based unflavoured lube. Just use a few drops on your fingers and get frisky!

Use it for a sexy massage 

What if we told you that lube could double up as massage oil? You can pick either a water-based or oil-based one for the job—squirt a few dollops on your partner’s back and massage all their stress away. Will this non-sexual foreplay lead to something naughtier? You be the judge of that.