5 intimate sex positions that will make you feel the love

When you’re with a long-term partner, sex can become habitual—you know what gets you and your bae off and both of you have your go-to positions that get the job done. While routine can be comforting, it’s always fun to switch things up in the bedroom to keep the spark alive. Exploring new positions can help bond with your partner and bring you closer as a couple. So, for your next session, skip the quickie and instead light scented candles, put on a sexy playlist, and get ready to try something new. Remember, it’s not about the destination (the big O), but the journey—have fun! 

And if you’re wondering where to begin, these five positions will serve as the perfect starting point.

Lotus or yab-yum

A classic tantric position, lotus or yab-yum is low-effort but promises great intimacy. The penetrating partner sits cross-legged on a sturdy surface—a couch, chair, or bed, all work. Then, the receiving partner sits on their lap with their legs wrapped around their waist. We suggest starting with some foreplay first—touch them gently on their non-erogenous zones before making your way towards dangerous territory. This position is the best of all worlds—it involves hugs, intense eye-contact, and synchronised breathing. 

Spooning

Spooning is as intimate as it gets. It’s basically cuddling with a little spice, and cuddling is a sure-shot way to strengthen the bond with your partner. This may require a bit of adjusting though—lift one of your legs for easy access, or keep them closed for deeper penetration. 

Magic mountain 

This twist on doggy-style is easier to pull off and ranks higher on the romantic scale. While doggy-style can be more primal, this position involves both you and your partner to start in doggy-style, and then lower yourselves so you’re almost flat against the bed. This modification helps the penetrating partner to hit your G-spot *and* kiss your back while they’re pressed against you. Hot!

Face-to-face masturbation

Ready to give your boo a front-seat view? Technically, this is not a sex position, but it's guaranteed to bring you and your partner closer—nothing is more vulnerable or intimate than letting them witness something that is usually an extremely private moment. You could do it anywhere—on the couch or in the shower, but the bed remains the most comfortable option. 

Side-by-side

Think spooning but with sexy eye contact! While you cuddle facing each other, pull them extra close and swing your leg over their hip while they penetrate you (our tip: go slow). All that face time and intertwined legs make this one of the most intimate positions out there.